HELP! Am I missing anything...?

I plan on getting married in December. I just wanna make sure I have everything, at least the basics. We're having a small wedding for now until we can afford a bigger one later on. I know I'll need musicians, a florist, a baker, and someone to record (video) and take pictures. Maybe ushers and a caterer (for food). Can anyone think of anything else I may need? Thank you guys! =] Also what are some cool food ideas?

HELP! Am I missing anything...?
Gown

wedding bands

Wedding license

Limo or car

Honeymoon

MOH and Best Man

Guest list

Venue

Church or JOP

FOOD and drinks

China, silverware, linens, napkins
Reply:Well, you're missing the fact that you only have ONE wedding, so make this one the one you want! It's silly to think you can have "another one" later.... what are you thinking?

Other considerations - booking someone to perform the ceremony, wedding attire for couple and attendants, readings for ceremony, decorations...

For food, go with a traditional buffet for dinner - you can choose several entrees - like a roast (usually beef is best, or pork) and turkey or ham.... or specialty entrees if that's your thing; hot veggies, assorted salads; marinated veggies, some sort of potato dish, like roasted baby potatoes; cheeses, pickles, buns; variety of desserts.

Good luck!
Reply:And officiant is the most important thing that you need to get married!
Reply:An officiant and possibly a DJ if you don't have someone to play music. A place to have your wedding. Invitations. Bridal party. License. Food depends on your time of day and theme. You could always do ham or turkey since those are generally on sale around then. A traditional family dinner type thing would be neat since it is around Christmas. You could also do comfort foods..things that make you feel warm. Best of luck.
Reply:Try going to the website for Brides magazine..they have checklists for what to do 6 months ahead, 3 months, ahead..etc...
Reply:So I am guessing you have a place to get married and a person to do it? And you have a place for the reception, do you have linens for your tables? If you have a cater are they going to provide the tableware ( dishes , forks). What about drinks? Have you orded invites? What about a dress and tux? Do you have bridemaids and groomsmen, cause you will need to get them gifts. What about the rehersal dinner, and who all is coming.
Reply:You'll want to look into an officiant and place to host the ceremony. Don't forget the small thing as well, like invitations, favors (if you plan to have them), rehersal dinner, etc.



Also, you may need to rent china, silverware, glasses, linens, chairs %26amp; tables. So keep in mind what's included when you book your halls/locations for reception %26amp; ceremony.



As far as food is concerned--what time of day you have the wedding can play a big part in what you need to serve. For an early morning affair a brunch buffett can be economical and classy. Think along the lines of quiche, fresh fruit platters, chicken salad on croissants, green salads with light dressings, an assortment of muffins. This can also be a big saver on a bar tab-bloody mary's and mimosas!



For an afternoon reception, you can consider light appetizers, or just cake and champagne/punch. An early evening cocktail hour is a great alternative as well.



What about a tapas reception? Then you can serve Sangria. mmmmm...sangria :)



Also, there are a lot of websites out there for brides that are free membership and offer checklists for planning. Try www.theknot.com or www.brides.com. You can always copy and paste the list and delete anything you're not planning on.
Reply:1) A BUDGET!!!!! Weddings get out of control quick sit down with the fiance, parents and figure out how much you have to spend on the wedding then list what is important to you in order. The more important things get taken care of first and then find ways to save on the less important things.

2) Dress

3) Selection of bridesmaids %26amp; groomsmen

4) Invitations, Save the Date cards, RSVP cards

5) Location

6) Officiant (pastor, priest, rabbi....etc.)
Reply:honey you have forgotten about one important thing. A PASTOR.
Reply:Who will be providing the table settings? the over lays, napkins, the chair covers, plates, glasses.... Just because your having it caterer doesnt always mean that they bring their stuff. Ok not what about center piece??? flowers???



for flowers if your on a budget try this place



http://wedideas.com



they do amazing work. As for food ideas, seriously, little hole in the wall places are the best. They're not in a rush, and they make it all about what you want. if you need help with anything else e-mail me addy is in the profile
Reply:Invitations, officiant (pastor, jp, priest), tailor (for alterations to your dress), DJ.



Hors d'oeurves: fruit shish kabobs, mini sandwiches, cookie table

Dessert: pie, ice cream sundae bar, candy station with little boxes so that people can pick out what candies they want to take home

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